Fit and curvy women, really this is what men prefer when they look at a woman. Why are there so many smart, beautiful, successful women out there who are all single?
What really are the desires of men and women and what do they want in the opposite sex?
So you have all these desirable single women out there and you have all these single fit guys and no one is finding the other. Why is that?
For the women out there you spend a lot of time in the gym working out and watching what you eat all just to get noticed by that special guy. Or maybe just to make sure your husband still thinks you’re a hottie.
A lot of women are constantly checking out their thighs and tummy especially after that chocolate dessert we probably shouldn’t have had.
It really is not surprising women feel that way because of all the slim and perfect models we see constantly in the media. They look so fit with their toned and sleek bodies saying you can have this too.
Is this really the image of women men want or like?
Research shows that no! Men do not desire slim, athletic and toned, but prefer “fit and curvy”.
Don’t get me wrong here because fitness is important, but men prefer women with softness around the middle and would choose Beyonce over the Paris Hilton or Madonna type.
Marilyn Munroe was considered to be the greatest sex symbol ever and her size was between 14 to 16.
So if women are spending all this time in the gym trying to look perfect, who are they doing this for? It’s not just the workouts but the dieting that goes with it.
A lot of women want the six pack look to their tummy. To do this you need a body fat count of under 12 per cent and that really is not healthy.
Men are not interested in looking at a six pack on a woman but they would much rather look at a woman’s “bootie” followed by legs and chest.
Looking at couples there is an interesting theory. Research shows that 51% of married men say that their wives weigh the same as when they got married.
One comment made was that “women marry men to change them and men marry women not to change”.
Men love their wives but the thing they dislike the most is when their wife will just let herself go and they stop taking care of themselves and how they look.
Men are turned on by physical sight, and so how you look is important. You don’t have to look like a super model, but taking care as to how you look and what you eat will go a long way to a great relationship with your spouse in more ways than one.
Exercise and eating healthy makes us feel so much better about ourselves and when we feel good about ourselves, we are more confident and can start a new lifestyle of exercise for fitness combined with healthy eating.